{"id":105,"date":"2023-07-12T08:55:16","date_gmt":"2023-07-12T08:55:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/?p=105"},"modified":"2026-04-26T10:40:30","modified_gmt":"2026-04-26T10:40:30","slug":"giao-tiep-trac-an-la-gi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2023\/07\/12\/giao-tiep-trac-an-la-gi\/","title":{"rendered":"Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n l\u00e0 g\u00ec?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"http:\/\/giaotieptracan.com\/\">Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n<\/a> (GTTA &#8211; Compassionate Communication) c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Giao ti\u1ebfp Phi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c \u2013 Nonviolent Communication. M\u00f4 h\u00ecnh GTTA c\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb 4 tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t ch\u00ednh: Th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh tinh th\u1ea7n, Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c t\u1ea1o \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u2013 chia s\u1ebb quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c b\u00ean, nh\u1eb1m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Hi\u1ec3u, b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong th\u1ea5u su\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u0110i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u00f3 \u00edch cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u00ean tham gia.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/GTTA_4-pillars-1-1-1024x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-48\" style=\"width:616px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/GTTA_4-pillars-1-1-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/GTTA_4-pillars-1-1-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/GTTA_4-pillars-1-1-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/GTTA_4-pillars-1-1-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/GTTA_4-pillars-1-1-1536x1536.png 1536w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/GTTA_4-pillars-1-1-2048x2048.png 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t #1 c\u1ee7a Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n: <strong>Th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh tinh th\u1ea7n<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n (Giao ti\u1ebfp B\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c) kh\u1edfi ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Nh\u00e2n v\u0103n c\u1ee7a Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Carl Rogers, v\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m l\u00fd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu to\u00e0n.<br \/><br \/>B\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng n\u0103m 1964 c\u1ee7a Rogers t\u1ea1i Vi\u1ec7n C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 California (Rogers, 1980) th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Rosenberg \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i. Trong b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00f3, Rogers nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh sau: th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1ec1 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh; gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng (congruence) gi\u1eefa tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m &#8211; \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 &#8211; v\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i ra ngo\u00e0i; s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n khi ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f9ng t\u1ea7n s\u1ed1; v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n.<br \/><br \/>B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh Carl Rogers, tri\u1ebft l\u00fd b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c (ahimsa) c\u1ee7a Gandhi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Rosenberg. Ahimsa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y n\u1ea3y sinh khi m\u1ecdi \u00e1c \u00fd, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 th\u00f9 h\u1eadn \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eafng xu\u1ed1ng kh\u1ecfi tr\u00e1i tim (Fischer, 1962). Lu\u1eadt s\u01b0 &#8211; h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean Steven Smith, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Giao ti\u1ebfp B\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng: C\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u1ee7a Gandhi, tuy truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u00e2u r\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 soi chi\u1ebfu ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Rosenberg \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eaft l\u1ecdc tri\u1ebft l\u00fd c\u1ee7a Gandhi \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t quy tr\u00ecnh thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c, d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tinh th\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<br \/><br \/>Roseberg \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t: c\u00e1i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc khi ch\u00fang ta l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn s\u1ebd li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Giao ti\u1ebfp B\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t c\u00fa ph\u00e1p, gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta t\u1eadp trung ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0o v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a nhu c\u1ea7u, v\u00e0 nh\u1edd v\u1eady m\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t #2 c\u1ee7a Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n: Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Rosenberg l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 c\u00f3 khuy\u1ebft t\u1eadt h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y \u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef h\u1ecdc t\u00e2m l\u00fd (psycholinguistics) v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Qua g\u1ea7n 30 n\u0103m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n (Giao ti\u1ebfp B\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c), \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn nh\u1eb1m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u00e1c b\u00ean v\u1eeba b\u00e0y t\u1ecf nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c, v\u1eeba l\u1eafng nghe v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc th\u00eam v\u1ec1 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh c\u0103n b\u1ea3n n\u00e0y t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/giaotieptracan\/posts\/4620811581306192\">https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/giaotieptracan\/posts\/4620811581306192<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t 3 c\u1ee7a Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n: K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng Giao ti\u1ebfp<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u1ecdc Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u1edbi. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed5 sung v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb v\u1ef1ng v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u, hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 c\u00fa ph\u00e1p, ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m d\u1ec5 g\u00e2y hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea7m, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u1ec9 khi ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp, ngay t\u1eeb trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng d\u1ec5 x\u1eed l\u00fd, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em ra s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u2018kh\u00f3 nh\u1eb1n\u2019. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2025\/04\/11\/com-le-cham-bi\/\">Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2026\/03\/09\/thanh-thao-ngon-ngu-cua-nhu-cau\/\">T\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/a> c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2024\/10\/01\/lam-sao-xac-dinh-dung-nhu-cau-cua-minh\/\">Nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n nhu c\u1ea7u<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>L\u1eafng nghe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2022\/07\/04\/con-gian-va-cac-he-thong-thong-tri\/\">c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn<\/a> c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2021\/06\/07\/noi-khong-bang-ngon-ngu-huou-cao-co\/\">T\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i<\/a> ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i v\u00e0\/<a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2022\/04\/14\/bai-tho-se-de-dang-hon-de-nghe-loi-tu-choi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">ho\u1eb7c<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2021\/05\/26\/khi-nguoi-khac-noi-khong\/\">l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2021\/05\/20\/khi-nao-toi-nen-ngat-loi-nguoi-khac\/\">Ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1 h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng k\u1ebb th\u00f9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>H\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00edch<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Linh ho\u1ea1t trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2026\/01\/30\/ha-nhiet-cang-thang-tai-new-delhi-cau-chuyen-cua-co-manasi-sanexa\/\">m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Chia s\u1ebb <a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2023\/07\/12\/chuyen-hoa-quyen-luc-bang-giao-tiep-trac-an\/\">quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>M\u1edf l\u00f2ng trong <a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/2026\/01\/30\/chia-tien-khong-can-cong-bang\/\">d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y<\/a> cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn<br \/><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y:<a href=\"https:\/\/giaotieptracan.com\/2021\/12\/10\/bo-cong-cu-28-nang-luc-gtta-nhung-loi-ve-tu-do\/\"> https:\/\/giaotieptracan.com\/2021\/12\/10\/bo-cong-cu-28-nang-luc-gtta-nhung-loi-ve-tu-do\/<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t #4 c\u1ee7a Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n: Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c t\u1ea1o \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1021\" src=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Screenshot-2026-04-26-at-17.21.46-1024x1021.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3316\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.0029289405443724;width:535px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Screenshot-2026-04-26-at-17.21.46-1024x1021.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Screenshot-2026-04-26-at-17.21.46-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Screenshot-2026-04-26-at-17.21.46-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Screenshot-2026-04-26-at-17.21.46-768x766.png 768w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Screenshot-2026-04-26-at-17.21.46.png 1378w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Anger Transference &#8211; Richard Sargent. The Saturday Evening Post (20\/03\/1954)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c t\u1ea1o \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c minh h\u1ecda trong khung h\u00ecnh tr\u00ean. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta n\u00e9n nh\u1ecbn ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng, ho\u1eb7c n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng. Ch\u00fang ta t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111e d\u1ecda v\u00e0 \u00e1p ch\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c theo \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 b\u1eb1ng v\u0169 l\u1ef1c hay chi\u1ebfn tranh l\u1ea1nh. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t. <strong><em>Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n<\/em><\/strong> ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng: c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<br \/><br \/>Ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh <strong><em>Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n<\/em><\/strong> l\u00e0 t\u00e1i c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac tri\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean-h\u1ecdc sinh trong l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho h\u1ecdc sinh c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u1edbn h\u01a1n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 tham gia nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh (Rosenberg, 1968, 1970, 1972, 1973). Trong 40 n\u0103m ti\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a <strong><em>Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n<\/em><\/strong> \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 bao g\u1ed3m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf h\u00f3a (v\u00ed d\u1ee5: c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t-c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n, s\u1ebfp-nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, linh m\u1ee5c-gi\u00e1o d\u00e2n, v.v.), v\u00e0 c\u00e1c quan h\u1ec7 th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c (v\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng-\u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, gi\u00e0u-ngh\u00e8o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0-ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 &#8211; con c\u00e1i, v.v.), nh\u1eb1m h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u2018th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb\u2019 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t, sang m\u1ed9t m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh \u2018c\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c\u2019 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau (Skye, 2004; Eisler, 2000).<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">GI\u1edaI THI\u1ec6U V\u1ec0 B\u00c1C MARSHALL ROSENBERG<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n &#8211; Sinh ra trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1960, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Rosenberg \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c trong c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp mi\u1ec1n Nam Hoa K\u1ef3. M\u00f4 h\u00ecnh Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh kinh nghi\u1ec7m h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi da \u0111en v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi da tr\u1eafng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng.<br \/><br \/>Trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Rosenberg chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1eeb kh\u00e1m ch\u1eefa t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng sang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. S\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc ti\u00ean ti\u1ebfn, nh\u01b0: Erich Fromm (1955) nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng, George Albee (1967) kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ee7 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a George Miller (1969) r\u1eb1ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00e0ng r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t.<br \/><br \/>Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Rosenberg th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra, trong ba ng\u00e0y, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n trong su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, \u1edf b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh l\u00e2m s\u00e0ng. M\u00f4 h\u00ecnh ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u1edf tr\u00ean ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng cho b\u00e0i to\u00e1n \u0111\u00f3.<br \/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1ecdc th\u00eam: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2021\/07\/11\/marshall-b-rosenberg-papa-cua-giao-tiep-trac-an-2\/\">https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2021\/07\/11\/marshall-b-rosenberg-papa-cua-giao-tiep-trac-an-2\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/giaotieptracan.com\/\">Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n<\/a> (GTTA &#8211; Compassionate Communication) c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Giao ti\u1ebfp Phi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c \u2013 Nonviolent Communication. M\u00f4 h\u00ecnh GTTA c\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb 4 tr\u1ee5 c\u1ed9t ch\u00ednh: Th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh tinh th\u1ea7n,&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":47,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,60],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-105","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gioi-thieu-giao-tiep-trac-an","category-nen-tang"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=105"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3315,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/105\/revisions\/3315"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/47"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}