{"id":1484,"date":"2022-10-08T07:46:11","date_gmt":"2022-10-08T00:46:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/giaotieptracan.com\/?p=1484"},"modified":"2023-12-25T06:55:58","modified_gmt":"2023-12-25T06:55:58","slug":"nen-tang-cua-phuong-phap-hoa-giai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2022\/10\/08\/nen-tang-cua-phuong-phap-hoa-giai\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p Ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u201cN\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0a ra cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi 2 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn – m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1ch c\u0169 trong m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn quen thu\u1ed9c, hai l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 – \u0111a s\u1ed1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn ph\u01b0\u01a1ng  \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean.\u201d <\/em><\/strong>[1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 xung quanh m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t l\u00ean. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c – th\u1eddi gian, v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n, th\u00f4ng tin, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m chung, v.v. – \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c h\u00f3a mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ee3 l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea1n trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p m\u1edbi cho m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi (c\u00e1c) b\u00ean c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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  • Trong g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra? \u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • Nhu c\u1ea7u th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00ean \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n (nh\u1eefng) v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00ean thay \u0111\u1ed5i ra sao? <\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • \u0110\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec c\u1ea7n g\u00ec t\u1eeb (nh\u1eefng) ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
  • \u0110\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec c\u1ea7n g\u00ec t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i? [2]<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

    Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 ph\u1ea7n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh khi n\u00f3i ra nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd t\u00f4i l\u00e0 tu\u00fdp ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ccho \u0111i\u201d trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng hay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u – v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, t\u1ef1 do, hay b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1eadt, v.v. – tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e1n c\u00e1i nh\u00e3n \u201c\u00edch k\u1ef7\u201d hay \u201c\u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn t\u00f4i \u0111ang m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh khi v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n A, v\u1eeba mu\u1ed1n B. Vi\u1ec7c l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n, s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp theo th\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 \u01b0u ti\u00ean, l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    B\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, \u0111a s\u1ed1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n B\u00caN KIA l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. Tuy v\u1eady, c\u00e1ch \u201cch\u1eafc \u0103n\u201d nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u \u0111au kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec CH\u00cdNH M\u00ccNH c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta suy ngh\u0129 chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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    • T\u00f4i \u0111o\u00e1n r\u1eb1ng b\u00ean kia mu\u1ed1n (nh\u1eefng) v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00ean thay \u0111\u1ed5i ra sao? <\/li>\n\n\n\n
    • T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u00ean kia hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n (trong v\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i)?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    • T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cho nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m\/ kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y? \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0m\/ kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3? T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c \u0111i?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    • C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc tho\u1ea3 hi\u1ec7p hay t\u1eeb b\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    • N\u1ebfu tho\u1ea3 thu\u1eadn m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra, th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
    • Trong m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, c\u00e1c b\u00ean s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng t\u1ea1o ra v\u00e0 so s\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n kh\u00e1c nhau. V\u1eady, (nh\u1eefng) ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n thay th\u1ebf t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec? [2]<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n

      M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3, khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f4 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p nu\u00f4i con nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 mong mu\u1ed1n, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t ch\u1ed3ng mua g\u00f3i b\u1ea3o hi\u1ec3m cho con chung v\u1edbi g\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho kho\u1ea3n tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 doanh nghi\u1ec7p, khi th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chi tr\u1ea3 ph\u1ea7n h\u00f9n v\u1ed1n cho kho\u1ea3n h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 ban \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t chia l\u1ea1i quy\u1ec1n h\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00ec hu\u1ef7 b\u1ecf h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Trong c\u1ea3 hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u00ean, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n cho t\u1edbi khi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ra. Vi\u1ec7c b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap nhi\u1ec1u nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng h\u01a1n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t khi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch kh\u1ecfi mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n

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      2. N\u00f3i th\u1eadt v\u00e0 Nghe th\u1eadt:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

      B\u1ea1n t\u00f4i t\u1eebng k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng, anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf b\u1ebfn xe bu\u00fdt v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u00e3i nhau. H\u1ecd \u0111\u1ee9ng c\u00e1ch nhau ch\u1ec9 50 cm, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd g\u00e0o l\u00ean v\u1edbi \u00e2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 3 m c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i g\u00e0o l\u00ean, ho\u1eb7c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd an t\u00e2m r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang h\u1ecd, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n s\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi, sau nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng n\u0103m, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i th\u00eam b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Ph\u00f2ng ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i th\u1eadt nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 nghe – cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 cho c\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 n\u00f3i – \u1ea9n s\u00e2u trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u t\u1eeb quen thu\u1ed9c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      N\u00f3i th\u1eadt:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      \u201cM\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc trong t\u1ea7m ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Trong \u201cbu\u1ed3ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng\u201d c\u1ee7a phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho ph\u00e9p b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 hay s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u00ean tham gia.\u201d <\/em>[1] Do \u0111\u00f3, vai tr\u00f2 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i th\u1eadt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1eebng ch\u1eefng l\u1ea1i khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi, \u201cC\u00f4 c\u00f3 ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 c\u00f4 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u2018kh\u00f4ng\u2019 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh?\u201d. M\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tranh c\u00e3i xem ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1m h\u1ed9 h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau v\u00ec sau quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c l\u00e0m \u0103n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac, s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt cho ta th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, nh\u1eefng hy sinh th\u1ea7m l\u1eb7ng. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac, ta v\u1ed9i mu\u1ed1n che \u0111i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, th\u00ec khi k\u1ebft th\u00fac, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111i chung \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng r\u00f5 h\u01a1n, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng h\u01a1n cho nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Nghe th\u1eadt:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i khi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn cho s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n; m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i e ng\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng khi nghe. Trong ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u201ctr\u1ea1m trung ho\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec7n l\u1ef1c\u201d. C\u00e1c b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng n\u00e9m nh\u1eefng m\u0169i t\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t nhau (t\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi nhau), m\u00e0 n\u00e9m v\u1ec1 tr\u1ea1m trung ho\u00e0 (t\u1ee9c k\u1ec3 ph\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i). [3] H\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba n\u00e9m m\u0169i t\u00ean. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap trung ho\u00e0 b\u1edbt nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ea1nh trong th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, b\u00ean c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p n\u00e0y m\u00e0 \u00edt b\u1ecb k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t nh\u1ea5t, \u00edt c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean c\u0169ng gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i \u0111ang th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia? Khi t\u00f4i n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn, lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, \u2026, khi t\u00f4i ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang b\u00e1o hi\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi t\u00f4i? \u0110\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd t\u00f4i cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua, hay t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Trong r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u0169ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7, cho t\u1edbi khi c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i, nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua. [13] \u0110\u00f4i khi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng cho t\u00f4i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc cho nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t – m\u1ea5t nh\u00e0, m\u1ea5t ti\u1ec1n, m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng tin, m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c x\u00e2y \u0111\u1eafp, m\u1ea5t \u0111i th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. [4] \u0110\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1edd r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y – nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng, nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 hy sinh, nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc nguy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n l\u1ea7m l\u1ee1 – m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng coi nh\u1eb9 hay ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn ch\u00fang. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 b\u00ean c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin n\u00e0y, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp b\u1edfi ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean, v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi b\u00ean c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia b\u00ecnh an h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n

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      3. Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn:<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

      M\u1ecdi m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u1edf 4 t\u1ea7ng: V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, C\u1ea5u tr\u00fac, v\u00e0 V\u0103n ho\u00e1. [5] Trong th\u1eddi l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i (th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng 3 bu\u1ed5i, m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i 2-3 ti\u1ebfng), th\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean s\u1ebd ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u1edf t\u1ea7ng V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. [6] Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7ng M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp, c\u00e1ch ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh chung, v.v. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin \u1edf t\u1ea7ng C\u1ea5u tr\u00fac v\u00e0 V\u0103n ho\u00e1 s\u1ebd g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n b\u1ed5 tr\u1ee3 cho n\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1 h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1edf t\u1ea7ng V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      M\u1ed9t m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u00e9o. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ngay trong l\u00fac nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n h\u01a1n c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1ecf: ho\u00e1 \u0111\u01a1n hay n\u1ee3 th\u00e1ng n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3, tr\u1ebb con hay cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00fac tr\u1ef1c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, h\u00e0ng b\u1ecb giam t\u1ea1i c\u1ea3ng th\u00eam ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o l\u00e0 l\u1ed7 th\u00eam t\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, \u2026 C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft trong s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng qua l\u1ea1i l\u1eabn nhau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang: quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cho con \u0111i h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p thu nh\u1eadp c\u1ee7a cha\/ m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1eaft gi\u1ea3m nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch kinh doanh c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, \u2026 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Trong m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean s\u1ebd h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u00e1c b\u00ean l\u00e0m r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang. [7] K\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u00ean s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u1eadp ra m\u1ed9t khung v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft tu\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 t\u1eebng n\u00fat th\u1eaft m\u1ed9t, th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c \u01b0u ti\u00ean ho\u00e1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ho\u00e1 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i bi\u1ebfn s\u1ed1, ho\u1eb7c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00e1c nhau, \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean l\u00e0 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u00ean l\u1eadp ra khung v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u00e1m s\u00e1t n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn \u0111i l\u1ea1c qu\u00e1 xa kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ban \u0111\u1ea7u. M\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 n\u1eefa ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau ra. Ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, hi\u1ebfm khi di\u1ec5n ra theo \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eb3ng. \u0110\u00f4i khi cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn ph\u1ea3i \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f2ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2m v\u00e0o nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00f5 c\u1ee5t – \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ebd ra. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nhanh. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ch\u1eadm. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ed9t xe c\u00fat k\u00edt ch\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00e1o tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Anh ta h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1n n\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng: \u201cT\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y ra t\u1edbi ch\u1ee3 th\u00ec m\u1ea5t bao l\u00e2u n\u1eefa nh\u1ec9?\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1n n\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00ecn anh r\u1ed3i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cN\u1ebfu anh \u0111i ch\u1eadm th\u00ec m\u1ea5t kho\u1ea3ng 3 gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3. N\u1ebfu anh \u0111i nhanh th\u00ec m\u1ea5t 3 ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u00edt.\u201d [8] Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fac l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea9y xe, v\u00e0 tr\u00ean xe kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00e1o m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u1ee9ng g\u00e0, ly thu\u1ef7 tinh, ch\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 ch\u00e1y n\u1ed5, v.v. \u0110i ch\u1eadm \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1edf t\u1ea7ng M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft khi c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean nh\u1eadn 100% tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi n\u00f3. M\u1ed9t-tr\u0103m-ph\u1ea7n-tr\u0103m, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u0103m-m\u01b0\u01a1i-n\u0103m-m\u01b0\u01a1i. [1] Khi ta d\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c truy h\u1ecfi xem ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed5 ph\u00e1t ph\u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean – v\u00e0 th\u1eed nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ch\u00e2m d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda, khi ta d\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea3y v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia x\u1eed l\u00fd – v\u00e0 th\u1eed coi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i to\u00e1n chung c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ee3p s\u1ee9c m\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i ra \u0111\u00e1p s\u1ed1, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng b\u1ebf t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      \u1ede vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba, t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u0169 kh\u00ed v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1ee3i h\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. Khi ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean n\u00f3i l\u00ean s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean hay b\u0103n kho\u0103n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra trong phi\u00ean h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i, \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u00ean nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi nhau. Trong nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n c\u0169 r\u00edch m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng n\u00e0o tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi m\u1ed9t b\u00ean kho\u00e1c l\u00ean t\u1ea5m \u00e1o gi\u00e1p c\u1ee7a \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u00ednh ngh\u0129a, ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng sai tr\u00e1i trong \u0111\u1eddi\u201d, th\u00ec b\u00ean kia c\u0169ng l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb h\u1ea1i v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i\u201d. Khi m\u1ed9t b\u00ean t\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n cho m\u00ecnh vai c\u1ee7a \u201cK\u1ebb v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang\u201d, th\u00ec b\u00ean c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o vai \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o ch\u01b0a m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai\u201d. [1] <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Nh\u1eefng vai di\u1ec5n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec sai tr\u00e1i. Ch\u00fang gi\u00fap ta nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang gi\u00fap ta gi\u1ea5u \u0111i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u x\u00ed, \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u00ean trong. Tuy v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ng\u0103n ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, thay v\u00ec b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i phi\u1ebfn di\u1ec7n, m\u00e9o m\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Th\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a ta c\u0169ng b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng v\u1edf di\u1ec5n n\u00e0y, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f9ng tham gia, ho\u1eb7c th\u00eam m\u1eafm d\u1eb7m mu\u1ed1i, \u0111\u1ec3 ta ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c di\u1ec5n tr\u00f2n vai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 cho ph\u00e9p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00ean, ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i vi\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb r\u1ecdi s\u00e1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 g\u1ee3i \u00fd nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 giao ti\u1ebfp m\u1edbi, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1edfi b\u1ecf, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ea3 b\u1edbt nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e1n l\u00ean nhau v\u00e0 l\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. [9]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      V\u00ed d\u1ee5, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ebb nh\u1ecf h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia trong l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y cho m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f3, v\u00e0 t\u1eadp c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00edch v\u00e0 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 th\u1eed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng, d\u00f9 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 \u00fd hu\u1ef7 ho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh hay \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta t\u1eadp ghi nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, v\u00e0 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf nh\u1eefng quy \u01b0\u1edbc giao ti\u1ebfp m\u1edbi l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n. [10]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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      Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1edf t\u1ea7ng C\u1ea5u tr\u00fac:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh khi\u1ebfn m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu h\u1ee5t th\u00f4ng tin. Khi c\u00e1c b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng tin ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 chung s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. [2] Ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf t\u1ea7ng C\u1ea5u tr\u00fac cho ta th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ng\u1ea7m khi\u1ebfn m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ta thu th\u1eadp th\u00eam th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang. Khi ta ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac, c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ta \u0111ang l\u1eadt gi\u1edf nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. D\u00f9 t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc, c\u00f4ng ty, h\u1ed9i, \u0111o\u00e0n, …, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng l\u01b0\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 quy \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n b\u1ed5 ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c, l\u01b0u chuy\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng tin, g\u00f3p \u00fd v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra thay \u0111\u1ed5i, \u2026 [5]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng trong nh\u1eefng l\u01b0\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 quy \u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tranh c\u00e3i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng con \u0111i du l\u1ecbch n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u00f2ng ch\u1ed1ng COVID t\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ch\u1ecbu n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t 3 tu\u1ea7n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean m\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 d\u1ec5 cho \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c c\u00f2n m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng, trong khi l\u00fd do c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 cho quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0y th\u00ec ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn qua l\u0103ng k\u00ednh c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac gi\u00fap ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u00e0 n\u1eb1m \u1edf h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec b\u1edfi m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn – gi\u1eefa c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi, gi\u1eefa b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn n\u00e0y v\u00e0 b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn kh\u00e1c, gi\u1eefa vai tr\u00f2 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 vai tr\u00f2 kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00fang nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng l\u01b0\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi, nh\u1eefng quy \u01b0\u1edbc m\u1edbi, gi\u00fap \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 gi\u00fap t\u1ed1i \u0111a ho\u00e1 s\u1ef1 tham gia c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. [5]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1edf t\u1ea7ng V\u0103n ho\u00e1:<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

      Gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1edf t\u1ea7ng V\u0103n ho\u00e1 m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch ta \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecbnh danh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 r\u1ecdi s\u00e1ng nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh, thi\u00ean ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00f9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n nghi ng\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t qu\u1ed1c t\u1ecbch hay t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf h\u1ec7, kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa n\u1eef v\u00e0 nam v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ecb gi\u1edbi, kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u00e0u-ngh\u00e8o, \u2026, mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng \u01b0u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau. Khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

      V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn 1 trong 5 c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn: g\u00e2y h\u1ea5n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n, nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 quy h\u00e0ng, tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh v\u00e0 ph\u1edbt l\u1edd, th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra 3 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, g\u1ed3m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        \n
      1. \u00c1p d\u1ee5ng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c<\/em> th\u00f4ng qua g\u00e2y h\u1ea5n, nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      2. Kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i <\/em>th\u00f4ng qua th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p<\/li>\n\n\n\n
      3. \u0110\u00e1p \u1ee9ng mong mu\u1ed1n<\/em> th\u00f4ng qua h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i [12]<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n

        Khi nh\u00ecn m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1edf t\u1ea7ng V\u0103n ho\u00e1, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau. C\u00e1i gi\u00e1 ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng <\/strong>mong mu\u1ed1n<\/em><\/strong> th\u00f4ng qua h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i<\/strong> l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng nhau. C\u00e1i gi\u00e1 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf khi so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft kh\u00e1c, v\u1ed1n th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 o\u00e1n gi\u1eadn, ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng, h\u00e0nh vi hi\u1ebfu chi\u1ebfn th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng, quan li\u00eau, tham nh\u0169ng v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng, v.v. [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        Ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t cho c\u00e1c b\u00ean, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n trong c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tham kh\u1ea3o<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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        [11] C\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 Ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf Xung \u0111\u1ed9t TKI (Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument). Ngu\u1ed3n: beyondintractability.org<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        [12] Ury, W. L., Brett, J., & Goldberg, S. (1993). Getting disputes resolved (p. 1988). Cambridge, MA: PON Books.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

        [13] Furlong, G. T. (2020). The conflict resolution toolbox: Models and maps for analyzing, diagnosing, and resolving conflict. John Wiley & Sons.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

        \u201cN\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0a ra cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi 2 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn – m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1ch c\u0169 trong m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn quen thu\u1ed9c, hai l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 – \u0111a s\u1ed1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn ph\u01b0\u01a1ng  \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean.\u201d [1] \u0110a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mong nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1940,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gioi-thieu-giao-tiep-trac-an","category-viet-tu-nguoi-thuc-hanh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1484"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1484\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1941,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1484\/revisions\/1941"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1940"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}