{"id":2772,"date":"2024-12-18T02:05:25","date_gmt":"2024-12-18T02:05:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/?p=2772"},"modified":"2024-12-18T02:05:25","modified_gmt":"2024-12-18T02:05:25","slug":"nhu-cau-co-mau-thuan-khong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2024\/12\/18\/nhu-cau-co-mau-thuan-khong\/","title":{"rendered":"Nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong nhi\u1ec1u kho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n (GTTA), m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u201cC\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, con t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u vui ch\u01a1i, c\u00f2n t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i? M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u an to\u00e0n, c\u00f2n t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1? Ch\u1ed3ng mu\u1ed1n giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, v\u1ee3 mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea9u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh g\u1ee3i nh\u1eafc trong \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed7i khi th\u1ea5y b\u1ebf t\u1eafc v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n, anh th\u1ee7 th\u01b0 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y hai \u00f4ng l\u00e3o \u0111ang c\u00e3i nhau b\u00ean c\u1eeda s\u1ed5. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n m\u1edf c\u1eeda s\u1ed5, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3ng. Anh h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd v\u00ec sao h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00d4ng l\u00e3o mu\u1ed1n m\u1edf c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 b\u1ea3o l\u00e0, \u201cPh\u00f2ng b\u00ed qu\u00e1! M\u1edf cho tho\u00e1ng!\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00d4ng l\u00e3o mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 b\u1ea3o, \u201cGi\u00f3 th\u1ed5i v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m t\u00f4i x\u00e2y x\u1ea9m.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"512\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/1-1-512x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2773\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/1-1-512x1024.jpg 512w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/1-1-150x300.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/1-1-768x1536.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/1-1-1024x2048.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/1-1-scaled.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anh th\u1ee7 th\u01b0 suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, r\u1ed3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i sang c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, v\u1ed1n th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, v\u00e0 m\u1edf c\u00e1c c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u00f3. Hai \u00f4ng l\u00e3o h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Trong GTTA, c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201d\u1ede t\u1ea7ng nhu c\u1ea7u ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u0103n b\u1ea3n (m\u1ed9t \u201cworking hypothesis\u201d &#8211; t\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u00e0m c\u01a1 s\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng: nhu c\u1ea7u th\u00ec tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1m m\u00e2y v\u1eady. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o hai \u0111\u00e1m m\u00e2y l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ee5i n\u00f3 va nhau c\u00e1i \u201cxo\u1ea3ng\u201d, v\u00ec ch\u00fang qu\u00e1 m\u1ec1m x\u1ed1p v\u00e0 linh ho\u1ea1t (Yoram Mosenzon, 2021). T\u00ednh \u201cm\u1ec1m x\u1ed1p\u201d v\u00e0 \u201clinh ho\u1ea1t\u201d c\u1ee7a nhu c\u1ea7u n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7 m\u1ed7i nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u1ec9 khi ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u00ean l\u00e0m c\u01a1 s\u1edf, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm t\u00f2i, t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, k\u00eau g\u1ecdi tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap, \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t minh ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi gi\u00fap \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u nhu c\u1ea7u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y win-win l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a 1 trong 2 b\u00ean m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t \u201ccreative tension\u201d (m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c c\u0103ng v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o). S\u1ee9c c\u0103ng n\u00e0y th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00fang ta s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ta t\u00ecm th\u00eam c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/2-1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2774\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/2-1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/2-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/2-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/2-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/2-1-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/2-1.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Khi \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00ednh ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e1c Nhu c\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac anh ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, t\u00f4i vui m\u1eebng anh ph\u1ea3i hy sinh, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i qua ti\u1ebfc th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, c\u1ea3 khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho nhau.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u00f9ng l\u00fac, trong n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, hay trong m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n c\u0169ng tin r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u, m\u00e0 n\u1eb1m \u1edf s\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c s\u1ee9c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00ean \u1edf kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ma s\u00e1t gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u b\u00ean trong ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, GTTA m\u1eddi b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi 3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi:<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/3-1-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2775\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/3-1-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/3-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/3-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/3-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/3-1-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/3-1.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>V\u1edbi \u201cs\u1ee9c c\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o\u201d n\u00e0y, li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i (v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi) c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 ra th\u00eam c\u00e1ch g\u00ec kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>N\u1ebfu ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1n h\u1eb9p, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00edch, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ngay l\u00fac n\u00e0y? L\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u00f4i c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng n\u1ed7i th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc cho nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh (v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi)?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u1ea5p b\u00fat: Khang, May, Trang<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Trong nhi\u1ec1u kho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n (GTTA), m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u201cC\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, con t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u vui ch\u01a1i, c\u00f2n t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i? M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u an to\u00e0n,&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":2773,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,60],"tags":[12,21,46],"class_list":["post-2772","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-hoi-dap","category-nen-tang","tag-compassionate-communication","tag-giao-tiep-trac-an","tag-nvc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2772","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2772"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2772\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2776,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2772\/revisions\/2776"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2772"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2772"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2772"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}