{"id":2891,"date":"2025-04-11T02:56:06","date_gmt":"2025-04-11T02:56:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/?p=2891"},"modified":"2026-01-30T04:19:42","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T04:19:42","slug":"com-le-cham-bi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2025\/04\/11\/com-le-cham-bi\/","title":{"rendered":"Com-l\u00ea ch\u1ea5m bi - C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n hi\u1ec3u &amp; th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch L\u1ef1a l\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u2013 Giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng (Nonviolent Communication: A Language Of Life), ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2023\/07\/12\/marshall-b-rosenberg-papa-cua-giao-tiep-trac-an\/\">Marshall Rosenberg<\/a> \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n sau v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 k\u1ecbp d\u1eebng lai \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 mua m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 com-l\u00ea m\u00e0u x\u00e1m nh\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c. K\u1ebft th\u00fac bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb bao quanh b\u1edfi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham d\u1ef1, h\u1ecfi xin \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ec9, ch\u1eef k\u00fd v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Do c\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng nghu\u1ec7ch ngo\u1ea1c k\u00fd v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft l\u00ean nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y nh\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00fai tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t t\u00f4i. Khi ch\u1ea1y v\u1ed9i ra kh\u1ecfi c\u1eeda, t\u00f4i c\u1eafm c\u00e2y vi\u1ebft \u2013 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1eady n\u1eafp \u2013 v\u00e0o t\u00fai \u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ed9 com-l\u00ea m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00e3 ra ngo\u00e0i, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kinh kh\u1ee7ng: thay v\u00ec b\u1ed9 \u00e1o x\u00e1m nh\u1ea1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o ch\u1ea5m bi!<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/marshall.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2892\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/marshall.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/marshall-300x240.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/marshall-768x614.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Hai m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u00fat sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh: \u201cSao m\u00e0 m\u00e0y l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y? M\u00e0y th\u1eadt ngu ng\u1ed1c!\u201d. May m\u1eafn l\u00e0, sau 20 ph\u00fat, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m. T\u00f4i d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: \u201c<strong>Nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0o n\u1eb1m d\u01b0\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u2018b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n\u2019 v\u00e0 \u2018ngu ng\u1ed1c\u2019<\/strong>?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh: t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong khi t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ngay khi t\u00f4i ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n \u1ea5y v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 mong m\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed1i: c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u0169ng d\u1ea7n tan bi\u1ebfn.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i chuy\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd sang nhu c\u1ea7u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng khi t\u00f4i v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng c\u1eafm c\u00e2y b\u00fat ch\u01b0a c\u00e0i n\u1eafp v\u00e0o t\u00fai \u00e1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/strong>. T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m th\u1ebf b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i xem tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c: t\u00f4i v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng c\u1eafm c\u00e2y b\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd cho cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n ti\u1ebfp theo. V\u00e0 d\u0129 nhi\u00ean, khi d\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cho nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, thay v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nh\u01b0 ban \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n d\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ea7y trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><!-- wp:paragraph --><\/p>\n<p>Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch L\u1ef1a l\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u2013 Giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng (Nonviolent Communication: A Language Of Life), ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2023\/07\/12\/marshall-b-rosenberg-papa-cua-giao-tiep-trac-an\/\">Marshall &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":2892,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,52,42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2891","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-thau-cam-tu-than","category-thuc-hanh","category-viet-tu-nguoi-thuc-hanh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2891","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2891"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2891\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2893,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2891\/revisions\/2893"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2892"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2891"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2891"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2891"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}