{"id":3180,"date":"2026-01-30T02:37:44","date_gmt":"2026-01-30T02:37:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/?p=3180"},"modified":"2026-01-30T04:15:41","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T04:15:41","slug":"thang-dan-ong-buoc-chan-vao-tu-gio-da-khac-roi-bai-viet-chia-se-tu-co-kathleen-macferran-giang-vien-chung-nhan-cua-to-chuc-giao-tiep-trac-an-quoc-te-cnvc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2026\/01\/30\/thang-dan-ong-buoc-chan-vao-tu-gio-da-khac-roi-bai-viet-chia-se-tu-co-kathleen-macferran-giang-vien-chung-nhan-cua-to-chuc-giao-tiep-trac-an-quoc-te-cnvc\/","title":{"rendered":"TH\u1eb0NG \u0110\u00c0N \u00d4NG B\u01af\u1edaC CH\u00c2N V\u00c0O T\u00d9 GI\u1edc \u0110\u00c3 KH\u00c1C R\u1ed2I – B\u00e0i vi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb t\u1eeb c\u00f4 Kathleen Macferran, Gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean Ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf (CNVC)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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T\u00f4i (Kathleen) l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0 t\u00f9 Monroe, Washington t\u1eeb 2002. Hai ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n cho t\u00f4i ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng: nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f9 t\u1ed9i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi song s\u1eaft v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 mang b\u00ecnh an cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m mang Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 t\u00f9. Th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed7i khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n trong t\u00f9, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i m\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 trong hai ph\u00fat, trong nh\u00f3m nh\u1ecf. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd l\u1eafng nghe r\u1ed3i \u0111o\u00e1n xem \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ec3, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch r\u00fat m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1ebb trong b\u1ed9 th\u1ebb nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u00e0i t\u1eadp \u0111\u00f3, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o: \u201cC\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng ai gi\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh, ho\u00e1 ra c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ed1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 gi\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh\u201d, ho\u1eb7c \u201cT\u1eeb l\u00fac b\u1ecb b\u1ecf t\u00f9 t\u1edbi nay l\u00e0 10 n\u0103m. Ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111i ngang qua m\u1eb7t n\u00f3. V\u1eady m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nhau d\u1eef v\u1eady\u201d, ho\u1eb7c \u201cCh\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 ai nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec7n t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 r\u1ed1t r\u00e1o nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e3. \u01af\u1edbc g\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u0169ng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n v\u00e0i ph\u00fat l\u1eafng nghe – theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi ch\u00fang ta l\u1eafng nghe – \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n trong t\u00f9, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00f3ng vai anh trai \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00f3i c\u1ea3m \u01a1n anh trai m\u00ecnh. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft v\u00ec c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m sau, khi t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3, anh ta b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i: \u201cKathleen c\u00f3 nh\u1edb c\u00e1i h\u00f4m m\u00e0 c\u00f4 v\u00e0o vai anh trai t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1eddi t\u00f4i thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eeb gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u0111\u00f3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd ch\u01b0a ai th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m cho t\u00f4i h\u1ebft. L\u00fac c\u00f4 v\u1edd l\u00e0m anh trai t\u00f4i m\u00e0 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec7n gi\u1eadt. T\u00f4i cho\u00e1ng t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c bi\u1ebft ngay m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u1eeb l\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ee9 c\u00f3 kho\u00e1 h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o m\u1edf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i r\u00e1ng \u0111i h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f2n nh\u01b0 x\u01b0a n\u1eefa. C\u00e1i th\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o t\u00f9 – gi\u1edd b\u01b0\u1edbc ra \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00e1c xa l\u00fac x\u01b0a r\u1ed3i.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 Kathleen Macferran, Gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean Ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf (CNVC). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ecbch: Ng\u00e2n H\u00e0 & Khang Ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

🔷 VIETNAM IIT 2025 – \u0110\u00c0O T\u1ea0O QU\u1ed0C T\u1ebe CHUY\u00caN S\u00c2U<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

⏰ 24\/10\/2025 – 02\/11\/2025 t\u1ea1i B\u00e1i \u0110\u00ednh, Ninh B\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

🤝 Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i c\u00f9ng nhau?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

IIT l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ho\u1ea1t trong c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u00f9ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn b\u1edfi c\u00e1c Gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf d\u00e0y d\u1eb7n kinh nghi\u1ec7m, \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong 3 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

🌈 NU\u00d4I D\u01af\u1ee0NG M\u1ed0I QUAN H\u1ec6<\/p>\n\n\n\n

💪 CHUY\u1ec2N H\u00d3A B\u1ea2N TH\u00c2N<\/p>\n\n\n\n

🌎 \u0110\u00d3NG G\u00d3P X\u00c3 H\u1ed8I<\/p>\n\n\n\n

📩 Website ti\u1ebfng Anh: https:\/\/www.cnvc.org\/learn\/iit\/2025-10-24-iit-viet-nam <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

📩 Website ti\u1ebfng Vi\u1ec7t: https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/iit-vietnam-2025\/ <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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THE MAN WHO WALKED INTO PRISON IS DIFFERENT NOW<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I have so many stories from bringing NVC into prisons that it is very hard to just pick one. It was common when starting out a weekend workshop inside prison that we would invite participants to share a story from their life for just two minutes, and have others listen and then guess what was important to them using a set of cards we had for each small group.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

After the small groups participants often said, \u201cI thought I was all alone, and now I know that others have similar experiences,\u201d or \u201cWe\u2019ve walked past each other for 10 years since we\u2019ve been locked up and I never knew we had so much in common,\u201d or \u201cI\u2019ve never had anyone listen and understand my story so fully before. It feels really good. I want to be able to do that for others.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just a few minutes of listening in the way NVC invites us to listen made others feel heard for the first time in their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once in prison I did a role play as the deceased brother of one of the incarcerate men so the man could give his brother gratitude. There were tears all around as it was deeply moving. Years later, when the incarcerated man had been released, he told me, \u201cYou remember that role play you did with me as my brother? I\u2019ll never forget that. It changed my life. No one had ever empathized with me before and when it happened, I didn\u2019t know what hit me. It was powerful and I knew I had to learn how to do that. Since then I\u2019ve gone to every training I could and my life will never be the same again. The man who walked into prison is a very different man than the one who walked out.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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T\u00f4i (Kathleen) l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0 t\u00f9 Monroe, Washington t\u1eeb 2002. Hai ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n cho t\u00f4i ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng: nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f9 t\u1ed9i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi song s\u1eaft v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 mang b\u00ecnh an cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m x\u00fac […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3181,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[61,52,26],"tags":[12,46,62],"class_list":["post-3180","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-iit-vietnam2025","category-thuc-hanh","category-workshop","tag-compassionate-communication","tag-nvc","tag-vietnamiit2025"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3180","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3180"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3180\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3184,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3180\/revisions\/3184"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3181"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3180"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3180"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3180"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}