{"id":3216,"date":"2026-01-30T03:51:43","date_gmt":"2026-01-30T03:51:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/?p=3216"},"modified":"2026-01-30T04:14:18","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T04:14:18","slug":"doi-thoai-sau-noi-chien-tai-nepal-cau-chuyen-chia-se-cua-bac-duke-duchscherer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2026\/01\/30\/doi-thoai-sau-noi-chien-tai-nepal-cau-chuyen-chia-se-cua-bac-duke-duchscherer\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i sau n\u1ed9i chi\u1ebfn t\u1ea1i Nepal – c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c Duke Duchscherer"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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“10 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i \u0111i Kathmandu l\u00e0m ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt, t\u00f4i \u1edf nh\u00e0. Cha n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, ‘Mai cha s\u1ebd v\u1ec1’. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng m\u00e3i m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng v\u1ec1. \u00d4ng b\u1ecb gi.\u1ebft b\u1edfi qu\u00e2n phi\u1ebfn lo\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y v\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 gi.\u1ebft cha m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd cha t\u00f4i s\u1ebd quay v\u1ec1, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i cha.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi b\u1ed9c b\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con, trong chu\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham chi\u1ebfn, sau cu\u1ed9c xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u0169 trang k\u00e9o d\u00e0i t\u1eeb 1996-2006 t\u1ea1i Nepal. Nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng s\u1ebd m\u00e3i coi nhau l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngu\u00f4i ngoai cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u0169ng t\u00ecm ra l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\"🌀\" Duke Duchscherer <\/strong>\u0111\u00e3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ed1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u00d4ng t\u1eebng ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1u phi\u1ebfn lo\u1ea1n Shining Path & MRTA, t\u1eebng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 trong qu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9i, nh\u1eefng l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u00e2n s\u1ef1, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp trong su\u1ed1t \u201cth\u1eddi k\u1ef3 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c\u201d \u1edf Peru. \u00d4ng t\u1eebng gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t sau n\u1ea1n di\u1ec7t ch\u1ee7ng Rwanda v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00f9 nh\u00e2n m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3 – nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ebft gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t, t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

\"🌀\" Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap h\u00e0n g\u1eafn nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb gi\u00e0y x\u00e9o b\u1edfi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, Duke c\u0169ng gi\u00fap chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1 c\u00e1c xung \u0111\u1ed9t \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. \u00d4ng d\u1eabn d\u1eaft chu\u1ed7i c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i gi\u1eefa qu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9i Ukraine v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 Nga \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n v\u00f9ng chi\u1ebfn tranh v\u1edbi Ukraine; ho\u1eb7c d\u1eabn d\u1eaft c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a Catalonia v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n duy tr\u00ec li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi T\u00e2y Ban Nha; ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng quan ch\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7, nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m thi\u1ec3u s\u1ed1\/d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c thi\u1ec3u s\u1ed1, v\u00e0 nh\u00f3m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp b\u1edfi c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f4ng, bi\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi do vi\u1ec7c ban h\u00e0nh hi\u1ebfn ph\u00e1p m\u1edbi \u1edf Nepal. Duke th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111a d\u1ea1ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nhau qua con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh, ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"🌀\" Duke Duchscherer l\u00e0 Gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean Ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c Giao ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n Qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf (CNVC) t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2000. \u00d4ng t\u1eebng l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean Ban \u0110i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh Vi\u1ec7n MK Gandhi v\u00ec B\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c. Chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a Duke g\u1ed3m x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh, ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i, ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh sang ch\u1ea5n, \u0110\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i Ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i sau t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 vinh d\u1ef1 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, t\u1eeb c\u00e1c ng\u00f4i l\u00e0ng nh\u1ecf \u1edf \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng cho t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 Li\u00ean H\u1ee3p qu\u1ed1c \u1edf n\u0103m ch\u00e2u l\u1ee5c. \u00d4ng c\u0169ng gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh Th\u1ea1c s\u1ef9 v\u1ec1 X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh Ch\u00e2u \u00c2u \u1edf \u00c1o, H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1edf Thu\u1ef5 S\u1ef9 v\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Hacettepe, Th\u1ed5 Nh\u0129 K\u1ef3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"🌀\" Gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a Duke l\u00e0 g\u00ec? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ki\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u01a1i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c l\u1eabn nhau, c\u00f9ng nhau gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t, d\u00f9 ra b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng nh\u1edb ta v\u1ed1n chung ph\u1eadn l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00f4n vinh nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i l\u1edbn t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Vi\u1ec7c Duke l\u00e0m l\u00e0 g\u00ec? L\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1edbi, g\u00f3p s\u1ee9c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua \u0111\u1ee9t g\u00e3y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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“10 years ago, my mother went to Kathmandu for surgery, and I stayed home. My father said, ‘I’ll be back tomorrow.’ But he never came back. He was killed by rebels. I came here because I thought that if I talked to the people who killed my father, maybe he would come back, someone would help me find him.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That was the confession of a daughter, in a series of dialogues between victims and combatants, in the aftermath of the 10-year conflict in Nepal. People who have always considered each other enemies heard each other for the first time. The pains that seemed impossible to heal finally found a solution.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"🌀\" Duke Duchscherer has coordinated many such dialogues. Some of Duke\u2019s work has included guiding trauma healing for those horribly affected by the Boko Haram activities in Nigeria. A large part of his work has focused on supporting the transformation of active conflicts such as leading a series of restorative dialogues between the Ukrainian army and the pro- Russian community where they reside near the warfront in Ukraine; or guiding dialogue between those supporting independence for Catalonia and those wanting to remain connected with Spain; or facilitating dialogue between state-level government officials, minority\/indigenous groups, and those who have been directly harmed by strikes, protests, and border closings due to the promulgation of the new Nepal constitution.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"🌀\" Duke has also worked extensively in the area of reconciliation leading numerous dialogues to create understanding, healing, and clear actions between communities who have experienced severe violence. For example he has facilitated reconciliation dialogues between former Shining Path & MRTA rebels, former military, civil society leaders, and those directly harmed during the \u2018time of violence\u2019 in Peru; or between Rwandan genocide survivors and recently released prisoners who killed their families. Duke really enjoys working with people from a variety of backgrounds to support them in creating understanding and seeing each other in ways that generate peace, harmony, and connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"🌀\" Duke Duchscherer is a Certified Trainer with the International Center for Nonviolent Communication since 2000 and is a former member of the Board of Directors for the MK Gandhi Institute for Nonviolence. Duke leads learning events in Nonviolent Communication and Restorative Dialogue to deepen his work in peacebuilding, reconciliation, trauma healing, and restorative processes. He has had the privilege of working around the world with a depth and breadth of peoples from small villages at the grassroots to governmental leaders at the United Nations on five continents. He also has taught in the Masters Peacebuilding programs at the European Peace University in Austria, the World Peace Academy in Switzerland, and Hacettepe University, Turkey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"🌀\" His vision includes creating resilient communities that care for themselves and each other through collectively finding ways to transform conflict and make decisions that acknowledge the shared humanity of all involved, celebrates differences, and supports and nurtures relationships. For Duke this means taking responsibility for his own role in creating such communities and to be willing to step forward and offer his energy to support communities becoming whole when they are experiencing something less than this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tr\u1ecdn b\u1ed9 phim v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i Nepal: https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=RqA2OydkXgg<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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(English below) “10 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i \u0111i Kathmandu l\u00e0m ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt, t\u00f4i \u1edf nh\u00e0. Cha n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, ‘Mai cha s\u1ebd v\u1ec1’. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng m\u00e3i m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng v\u1ec1. \u00d4ng b\u1ecb gi.\u1ebft b\u1edfi qu\u00e2n phi\u1ebfn lo\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y v\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 gi.\u1ebft cha m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3217,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[61,52,42,26],"tags":[12,62],"class_list":["post-3216","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-iit-vietnam2025","category-thuc-hanh","category-viet-tu-nguoi-thuc-hanh","category-workshop","tag-compassionate-communication","tag-vietnamiit2025"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3216","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3216"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3216\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3219,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3216\/revisions\/3219"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3217"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3216"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3216"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3216"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}