N\u1eef ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb, y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nam ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch s\u1ef1 ng\u0103n n\u1eafp v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9n chu<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2 t\u00ean n\u00e0y m\u1ebfch nhau<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sau khi tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt qua \u0111i, nam ch\u00ednh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00ec n\u1eef b\u1eeba b\u1ed9n qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed7i khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nam \u0111\u1ea3o l\u1ed9n h\u1ebft c\u1ea3 l\u00ean. N\u1eef th\u00ec th\u1ea5y nam \u2018kh\u00f4 nh\u01b0 ng\u00f3i\u2019 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eddi n\u1eef bu\u1ed3n t\u00eanh. Ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3 2 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u01b0\u01a1ng theo b\u00ean kia, r\u1ed3i th\u00e0nh kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu ng\u1ea7m, r\u1ed3i th\u00e0nh kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu ra m\u1eb7t, r\u1ed3i n\u1eef th\u00e0nh \u2018ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eeba b\u1ed9n\u2019 v\u00e0 nam th\u00e0nh \u2018ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4 khan\u2019… Chi\u1ebfn tranh leo thang, chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng tan t\u00e1c v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn s\u1ef9 hy sinh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y m\u00e0 th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y quen quen v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u0111\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfp, kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec d\u1eebng c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sau khi hy sinh kh\u1ecfi chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng chia n\u1eefa v\u1ea7ng tr\u0103ng, n\u1eef r\u1edbt v\u00e0o n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, loay hoay m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ra th\u00ec n\u1eef l\u01b0\u1ee3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cb\u00ed k\u00edp v\u00f5 c\u00f4ng\u201d, B\u00ed k\u00edp n\u00f3i v\u1ea7y n\u00e8:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch, ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1eadt ra ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Khi m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia trong m\u1eaft m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m\u201d, c\u00f2n m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01b0\u1edbt \u00e1t\u201d trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. T\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ef1, n\u1eef th\u00e0nh \u201c\u0111\u1ed3 b\u1eeba b\u1ed9n\u201d, \u201cc\u1ea9u th\u1ea3\u201d v\u00e0 nam kia th\u00e0nh \u201c\u0111\u1ed3 ti\u1ec3u ti\u1ebft\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5ng l\u00f2ng trao \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1eadt t\u00e2m, hay \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u b\u00ean kia v\u00ec s\u1ee3, v\u00ec tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn hay m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m th\u00ec h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. D\u1ea7n d\u00e0, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1eadp trung nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed s\u1ebd l\u00e2y sang c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00e1c \u1edf nhau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ec1nh. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hahaha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
B\u00ed k\u00edp nh\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01a1i tr\u1ec5, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 n\u1eef v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 v\u00ec n\u1eef th\u00f4i t\u1ef1 m\u1eafng nhi\u1ebfc b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ed3 n\u00e0y\u201d, \u201c\u0111\u1ed3 n\u1ecd\u201d. N\u1eef c\u0169ng th\u00f4i \u201c\u1ecbn c\u00e1i nh\u00e3n\u201d l\u00ean tr\u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u1eef l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i nhu c\u1ea7u chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u1eef nh\u1eafn v\u1edbi c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n xung quanh l\u00e0, khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ai \u0111\u00f3 qu\u0103ng cho c\u1ee5c x\u01b0\u01a1ng \u201c\u0111\u1ed3\u2026\u201d g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec h\u00e3y tr\u1ea3 c\u1ee5c x\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i cho ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, nh\u1eafc cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi c\u00e1i c\u1ee5c x\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 h\u00f4m n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n l\u1ee1 ph\u00e1n cho ai 1 c\u00e1i nh\u00e3n, th\u00ec c\u0169ng tranh th\u1ee7 nh\u00ecn xem nhu c\u1ea7u g\u00ec c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00e3n \u1ea5y nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
*Vi\u1ebft theo c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb Non-violence Communication: a language of life \u2013 3rd edition \u2013 Marshal Rosenberg<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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