B\u00e0i \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n V\u0169 L\u00ea V\u00e2n Anh trong v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y 22.8.2020<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Cho \u0111i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do di\u1ec5n ra b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3 cho \u0111i s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 khi n\u00f3i c\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t C\u00d3 TH\u1ef0C S\u1ef0 v\u00e0 khi n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t KH\u00d4NG TH\u1ef0C S\u1ef0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta ko l\u1eafng r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng, m\u00ecnh s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gh\u00e9t m\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh s\u1ee3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh sau khi m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ranh gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u00ean m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i d\u00f9 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 t\u1eeb Fear Based v\u00e0 Guilt Based, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ranh gi\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, m\u00ecnh k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn m\u00ecnh ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t r\u00f5 h\u01a1n, ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t nhanh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y h\u01a1n, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n m\u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i Kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t hay l\u00e0, khi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00f3i c\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng – n\u00f3i c\u00f3, v\u1eeba t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhau. B\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb A th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y ch\u1ecb A th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed1i tho\u00e1t v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb A th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong khi m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u1ea5y k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i v\u00ec ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. R\u1ed3i ch\u1ecb quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i trong vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u1eafng nghe chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 ch\u00fat c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecb th\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u1eafng nghe, th\u00ec l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ecb n\u00f3i c\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng chia s\u1ebb ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. Khi l\u1eafng nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecb A \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi \u0111i m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m tin tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh \u1edf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111i tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00e0ng g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec m\u00ecnh tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng h\u1ecd, c\u0169ng lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng hay ngh\u0129 ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e0o b\u1edbi l\u00ean nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00ean m\u1ed9t n\u1ea5c m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. V\u00e0 v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 khi m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u00ecnh suy ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y l\u00e0, khi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd g\u1eedi m\u1ed9t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng, m\u00ecnh t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u1edf b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m b\u00f3n cho v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 g\u1eedi t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhu c\u1ea7u, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 b\u00ean trong m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 v\u00f4 gi\u00e1. M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. Nh\u1ec9 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0110\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng khi m\u00ecnh cho \u0111i s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1eeb th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i qua ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n. C\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac, m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh, h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, qu\u00e1 l\u00e0 cho\u00e1ng ng\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ngay t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u1ea5y v\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng, th\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m x\u1ea3y ra s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 v\u1eabn ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u00ecnh an v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. R\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c r\u1ed3i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1eabn t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
C\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng k\u00ec di\u1ec7u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau. N\u00f3 cho ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ee9 t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n, ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee7 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t h\u1ed3 trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00e0u s\u1eafc, \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1edbn, nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee3t s\u00f3ng, v\u1edbi t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u1ee7a gi\u00f3, c\u1ee7a \u00e2m thanh…hay kh\u00f4ng? M\u00ecnh t\u1eebng quan s\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Trong m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, t\u1ea1i nh\u00f3m h\u1ecdc thi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng nhau t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u0111i ch\u00f9a \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eafp h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 th\u1ea7y, c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb \u1edf l\u1edbp tr\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 l\u1edbp m\u00ecnh. Khi \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i, m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh. T\u1ef1 d\u01b0ng l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh ng\u1ed3i im nghe m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 b\u00ean trong c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, s\u1ee3 n\u00f3i ra m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00ec m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111i c\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u1ecb \u1edf l\u1edbp tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u0111i kh\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5p th\u1ecfm khi s\u1eafp \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i. Ch\u1ecb h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i \u201c Kh\u00f4ng, ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh em \u0111i S\u1ea7m S\u01a1n r\u1ed3i, c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111i th\u00ec em l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 d\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea1i ch\u00e8n th\u00eam m\u1ed9t \u201c em g\u00e1i\u201d ghen t\u1ecb v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201c anh zai\u201d t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00ec ngh\u0129 \u201c t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u00f2n m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. Trong khi em n\u00f3i ra, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft, m\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh lu\u00f4n trong \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 khi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ra m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111i th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. M\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. H\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1o n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u1ed3i b\u00f3p ch\u00e2n cho b\u00e0. V\u00e0 m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 ranh gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m \u1edf b\u00ean trong m\u1ed7i khi m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u1edf nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u1ebft th\u00fac. V\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng hay b\u1ea5t c\u1eeb m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ph\u00eda sau vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh tin r\u1eb1ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eeb y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec di\u1ec5n ra trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ecdn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y. S\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1eafm \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00e2n Anh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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