{"id":651,"date":"2020-11-28T13:32:26","date_gmt":"2020-11-28T06:32:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/giaotieptracan.wordpress.com\/?p=651"},"modified":"2025-04-24T04:47:47","modified_gmt":"2025-04-24T04:47:47","slug":"biet-on-trong-tinh-huong-mat-mat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2020\/11\/28\/biet-on-trong-tinh-huong-mat-mat\/","title":{"rendered":"Bi\u1ebft \u01a1n trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote has-text-align-center is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u1eb7c chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o cho\u00e0ng BI\u1ebeT \u01a0N, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ecdi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh trong \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n &#8211; Rumi<\/p>\n<cite>Wear Gratitude as a cloak, and it will feed every corner of your life &#8211; Rumi<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong giao ti\u1ebfp tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n, h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0103n m\u1eebng (celebrate) nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u00ec b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ghi nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f3. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/workcollaboratively.com\/2020\/11\/23\/aliveness-and-joy-a-gift-of-gratitude\/\" target=\"_blank\">b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y<\/a>, Dian Killian c\u00f3 k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng cha \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a Giao Ti\u1ebfp Tr\u1eafc \u1ea8n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ch\u00fang ta vi\u1ebft nh\u1eadt k\u00fd bi\u1ebft \u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Theo Rosenberg, bi\u1ebft \u01a1n c\u0169ng thu\u1ed9c nh\u00f3m nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf l\u1eddi c\u00e1m \u01a1n chi\u1ebfm g\u1ea7n 50% giao ti\u1ebfp trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. \u00d4ng ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 an l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ghi nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Khi b\u00e0y t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, ch\u00fang ta ghi nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc (mourning). Th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 l\u00fac ta n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Dian n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u00ed d\u1ee5 trong \u0111\u00e1m tang, ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 c\u1ed1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng, m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. <strong>Khi b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>M\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t m\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3. Khi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tan v\u1ee1, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00ec m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa<\/em>. Nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u h\u01a1n:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>V\u1eady \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 ra \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p, s\u1ef1 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng nhau, &#8230;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>V\u1eady \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra khi\u1ebfn cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an, s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh,&#8230;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u1eady ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng ch\u01b0a? Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc n\u1eefa, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng trong su\u1ed1t chi\u1ec1u d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, trong s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ghi nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u00f4n vinh nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 ai \u0111i qua cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng an l\u1ea1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P.S: <br \/>1. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u01a1n b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a Dian Killian cho t\u00f4i ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc nguy\u00ean b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 <a href=\"https:\/\/workcollaboratively.com\/2020\/11\/23\/aliveness-and-joy-a-gift-of-gratitude\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng khoa h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. 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