Trong hai l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 tranh bi\u1ec7n \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp. Sau m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5i vai th\u00ec c\u00f3 2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i tham gia v\u00ec:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng,<\/p>
Em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n sang v\u1ecb th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec em \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Trong khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i ghi nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 b\u0103n kho\u0103n v\u1ec1 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 “\u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh”. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 t\u1eeb tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1edfi t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. N\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd v\u1ea3 th\u00ec h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd kia tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i l\u00e0m sao. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ef1c \u0111oan h\u01a1n, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c. C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n c\u1eadu t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi “con kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ti\u1ec1n \u00e0?”, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i “d\u1ea1, con th\u00edch ti\u1ec1n d\u1eef l\u1eafm ch\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu con nh\u1eadn gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec con s\u1ee3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c nhau l\u1eafm, v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y th\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 t\u00f4i tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc. V\u1eefng ch\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i gai g\u00f3c v\u00e0 x\u00f9 x\u00ec bao nhi\u00eau v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi to\u00e0n tr\u1eafng – \u0111en, \u0111\u00fang-sai, ph\u1ea3i-tr\u00e1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Trong m\u1ed9t th\u00e1nh l\u1ebd, v\u1ecb cha x\u1ee9 c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft. Cha n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Th\u1ef1c ra, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn ch\u1ebft m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m qua kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ebft, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. N\u1ebfu con ng\u01b0\u1eddi 20 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ebft th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi 30 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn. V\u1eady m\u00e0, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ebft. Khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 30, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5, o\u00e1n h\u1eadn \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 20. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5, o\u00e1n h\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 cho nh\u1eefng o\u00e1n h\u1eadn, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 tu\u1ed5i 20 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e3i…<\/p>B\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a Cha John Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00ecnh To\u1ea1i, th\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng Saint Paul<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
B\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p c\u00e1c t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u00e2m linh n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 C\u00e1i T\u00f4i b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a th\u1ebf n\u00e0o<\/a>, \u0111\u00e2y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh r\u00e2t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i. V\u00e0 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o, h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y c\u00f2n ch\u1eadt v\u1eadt , t\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn b\u1ecb c\u1ea7m t\u00f9 b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mong cho t\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u00eam nh\u1eefng thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 cho ph\u00e9p m\u00ecnh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 do h\u01a1n, nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u00e2n v\u0103n h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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