{"id":882,"date":"2021-05-26T21:29:55","date_gmt":"2021-05-26T14:29:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/giaotieptracan.com\/?p=882"},"modified":"2021-05-26T21:29:55","modified_gmt":"2021-05-26T14:29:55","slug":"khi-nguoi-khac-noi-khong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/2021\/05\/26\/khi-nguoi-khac-noi-khong\/","title":{"rendered":"Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i &#8220;Kh\u00f4ng&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Marshall Rosernberg t\u1eebng n\u00f3i, khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i tai c\u1ee7a h\u01b0\u01a1u cao c\u1ed5, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t n\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u, v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i &#8220;kh\u00f4ng&#8221; th\u1eadt ra c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi m\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe s\u00e2u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">B\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi 1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc sau:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Quan s\u00e1t ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra? H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi l\u1ea1i b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc camera kh\u00e1ch quan?<\/li><li>Trong \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh n\u1ed5i l\u00ean nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 g\u00ec (v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, ho\u1eb7c v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai,&#8230;)?<\/li><li>Khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? (c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u01a1 th\u1ec3)<\/li><li>C\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f3 n\u00e0y b\u00e1o cho m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft 1 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u1eady \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3, r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe m\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u01b0a? M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ea5y c\u1edfi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 1 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i Kh\u00f4ng c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 nghe nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i C\u00f3?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u201cs\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng r\u1ed3i\u201d, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u00f3 Nhu C\u1ea7u g\u00ec khi n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh?\u201d V\u00e0 c\u0169ng h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd c\u1ee7a nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3, d\u00f9 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 n\u1eb1m d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ec nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft t\u1eeb v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n v\u1eeba qua<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>M\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn ra nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u00f5 h\u01a1n<\/li><li>M\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn ra \u201cc\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng\u201d l\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh<\/li><li>b\u1ecb c\u1ea1n \u00fd v\u00e0 c\u1ea1n l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i<\/li><li>\u0111\u1ee1 ng\u1ea1i h\u01a1n<\/li><li>M\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe h\u01a1n<\/li><li>Nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh lo l\u1eafng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i d\u00e0i, s\u1ee3 nghe ko h\u1ebft<\/li><li>M\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn ra ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i t\u1eeb t\u1ed1n khi k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh<\/li><li>C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u00ec c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eafng nghe m\u00ecnh<\/li><li>S\u1ee3 nghe ko r\u00f5 l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i<\/li><li>M\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y 1. l\u1eafng nghe ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3.; 2. vui khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00fang nh\u1eefng g\u00ec trong m\u00ecnh 3. c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe, hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00fang th\u00f4i ^^<\/li><li>M\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ed3ng gh\u00e9p GTTA v\u00e0o t\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a thu\u1ea7n th\u1ee5c<\/li><li>M\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i Kh\u00f4ng.<\/li><li>\u0110\u00f3 gi\u1edd em hay \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t mn \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng vs m\u00ecnh n\u00ean ai n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u00ec em x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ec9u<\/li><li>M\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u00f5 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i Kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng nhau<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Vi\u1ec7c s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i &#8220;kh\u00f4ng&#8221; c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 th\u00eanh thang trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u1ee5y t\u1ea1o tinh t\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng l\u00fd tr\u00ed ho\u00e1<\/li><li>M\u1ecdi nhu c\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng<\/li><li>Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i Kh\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i C\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c.<\/li><li>1) hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh 2) c\u00f3 th\u00eam c\u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc g\u1ee3i \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n Khang, ch\u1ecb Khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea1.<\/li><li>C\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea1<\/li><li>Gi\u1eef kh\u00f4ng gian r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng<\/li><li>Th\u1ea7n ch\u00fa: \u0110\u1eb1ng sau m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd.<\/li><li>B\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u1ea3 d\u0129, \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u1edf nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n nghe \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d sau<\/li><li>1. nh\u1eadn ra nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia.<\/li><li>M\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda d\u1eadp th\u00ec qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng gian r\u1ed9ng<\/li><li>T\u00ecm th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng gian thay v\u00ec ch\u0103m ch\u0103m v\u00e0o c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda. V\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u01b0a?<\/li><li>Lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i &#8220;kh\u00f4ng&#8221;<\/li><li>C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng. Th\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa trong kh\u00f4ng gian n\u00e0y v\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng chia s\u1ebb h\u01a1n<\/li><li>\u0110i\u1ec1u em t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e2u c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb Khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 Khang: &#8220;Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i KH\u00d4NG v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i YES v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c&#8221;. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n ch\u1ecb v\u00e0 Khang r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u :))))<\/li><li>Ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ng kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb ng kh\u00e1c, t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/li><li>C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ngay khi nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn.\u00a0 Khi n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u201cC\u00f3\u201d v\u1edbi nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i v\u1edbi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd n\u00f3i C\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/li><li>C\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u1ea1.<\/li><li>M\u00ecnh s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u1eb9n g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n \u1edf V\u00f2ng Tr\u00f2n th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m ti\u1ebfp theo:<em> N\u00f3i &#8220;Kh\u00f4ng&#8221; trong ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef h\u01b0\u01a1u cao c\u1ed5<\/em>. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Marshall Rosernberg t\u1eebng n\u00f3i, khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i tai c\u1ee7a h\u01b0\u01a1u cao c\u1ed5, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t n\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u, v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i &#8220;kh\u00f4ng&#8221; th\u1eadt ra c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":885,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[47,13,7,15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-boi-canh-ung-dung","category-lang-nghe","category-thau-cam-voi-nguoi-khac","category-xa-hoi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/882","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=882"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/882\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=882"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=882"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.giaotieptracan.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=882"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}